2016

As 2015 came to a close, I realized that no year could be wholly perfect. I understood then that each year is meant to teach us something different and only through the triumphs and, equally so, the letdowns, can we experience profound growth. I came to this realization because in 2015 there was a defined distinction between those good and bad moments. Reflecting on this ride, I noticed that the bumps in the road formed a vital part in leading me towards the most exciting and eye-opening adventure yet. 2015 taught me that life cannot be controlled in any way and for this reason, the only way to ensure happiness is by embracing the journey rather than the destination.

So as I sat with my family on New Year’s Eve, I was quite worried about what was to come. I was skeptical of the over-enthused men, women, and children with smiles from ear to ear and their animated celebrations with confetti and fireworks. Yes, I was being quite cynical but more than anything, I was scared. Embracing uncertainty had begun to concern me. Where would I end up in a year? This existential question probably came a bit early in my life, but I felt this way because the coming year would mark the end of one era and the beginning of another. I would be transitioning into a new part of my life and there were so many question marks surrounding the future.

Well 365 days later and here we are. It baffles me that another year has gone by.

Given the trends on Twitter and Facebook, many have described 2016 as “the worst year ever,” and though this sounds like a melodramatic statement, it carries some validity. Human life seemed to become disposable and while I cannot encapsulate everything that occurred this year, I believe the best word to describe the state of our world is divided. In 2016, things became all about me versus you, and there was no effort to listen, collaborate, and catalyze change.

Amid global chaos though, 2016 managed to be one of the best years of my life. From an incredible end to my high school career, to reaching new heights, literally, in Alaska, to enjoying quality family time in the British Virgin Islands, and onto the beginning of my life as a Tar Heel – 2016 was pretty euphoric. 

The past 12 months were surely tinged by plenty of letdowns, but these have been some of my happiest days. I took life into my own hands. I pursued my dreams. I made new friends. I was able to explore more of the world than ever before. I was finally able to rediscover myself and everything I am most passionate about. 

Though I cannot appropriately express everything I did, I can share the things I learned. 

First, I learned that love always wins. The world I have gone into is one that is described as sad and hopeless, and rightfully so. I believed I had learned about the last genocides, I believed we were working towards a society that is more tolerant and equal, I believed that children around the globe could pursue their dreams… though very naïve, this was the mindset I had coming into 2016. I was proven wrong numerous times but despite all these horrors, I learned that I cannot combat despair with anger and rage. Rather, I must combat it with love and empathy.

Second, I learned that uncertainty can lead me to the greatest things in life. Surprises are essential because, in these moments of shock, I had the opportunity to recreate myself, my perspective, and my dreams. I pushed myself to stay away from conventional routes because they take the fun out of life – I enjoyed the experiences that were riddled with mistakes the most. 

Thirdly, and perhaps most importantly, I learned to be dynamic, bold, and courageous. This year, I made an effort to put myself out there, make new friends, and try new things. I dedicated myself to my photography and videography, to journalism and activism, to being spontaneous and going out with friends. I relished love, emotion, and what makes each of us unique. 

Lessons like these allow me to look back on 2016 and smile. I smile because when I asked myself “Where will I be in a year?” 365 days ago, I would have never imagined being where I am today. I experienced more than ever, felt more than ever, smiled more than ever, and laughed more than ever. For that, I am forever grateful. 

Cheers to everyone that made this year so special. I truly cannot thank you enough – without you and everything you did for and with me, 2016 would not have been the same.

Lots of love and here’s to all the adventures that 2017 will bring.